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I honestly forgot I had even wrote any resolutions for 2021.
What started out as a year full of possibilities, off the back of the dumpster fire that was 2020, quickly went downhill once the reality that covid was definitely not over yet sunk back in.
I went on an indefinite hiatus with my instagram freelance work at a similar time to switching day job roles to an online only, social media position. The struggle to not get overwhelmed when trying to do even two things at once, quickly became all too much and I realised that I needed to have that downtime that I had kept from myself for so long.
Probably the biggest revelation of this year was the discovery that I have ADHD Inattentive Type.
If you're on the internet a lot, you might be under the impression that "everyone thinks they have ADHD nowadays" which I can promise you is not the case. In fact ADHD is seriously underdiagnosed, especially in women. The ways in which it presents in women, from childhood through to adulthood are often overlooked simply as quirks in their personality.
The diagnosis came as a massive relief, an explanation for my struggles in both my school years and adulthood. In various aspect of my life, relationships and work. If I get a chance I might write another blog post delving into this topic a bit more, but in the meantime I'm truly doing the best that I have done perhaps ever. Implementing strategies and now daily medication have made a world of difference.
Anyway, now to the resolutions I set myself for 2021.
Go Vegan - ✓ Yep
In what was a snap decision on my part, I decided to join Veganuary, the go vegan in January challenge. Even though I gave Josh zero warning of my participation, he went to the grocery store and bought vegan alternatives to any sauces and cheeses that I had still been eating. I had only been drinking plant based mylks, and using vegan butter for at least a year or so before that which made the transition in our home pantry relatively straightforward.In fact the whole process was so simple, I continued on after January ended and have been vegan this entire year. I genuinely don't miss a thing about being vegetarian, or even further back (5 years?) an omnivore. In fact the only thing difficult about being vegan, is dealing with non vegans. Wait hear me out.
People are so apologetic, the treats they baked for everyone, they have egg or dairy in them.
I don't care. I don't expect people to take me into consideration when they cook things. I am just one person. I can organise my own snack or meal and I'm happy to.
On the flip side, if someone does go out of their way to buy a vegan option, or cook something vegan, I am incredibly appreciative. It's probably right up there with the nicest gesture you can do for me.
Then there's restaurants not labelling all of their vegan options (or not having any), having to awkwardly ask waiters and then them not knowing so they have to ask the chef. Newcastle is pretty great though for restaurants. I could go on and on, and maybe I will in another post.
But I'm vegan and it's for the animals.
Buy Our First Home - ✓ Oh Yeah
Can you believe it! On the very first day of the great NSW lockdown. Our offer was accepted and we bought our first home. A sweet three bedroom fixer upper in Mayfield. A major life milestone ticked off just like that. Renovation organisations are underway, to begin early next February.
There will be lots of updates to come, for now you can follow along over at my house insta "Teegly at Home".
Shop Mindfully - Mostly?
I would like to think that my plan to buy less and buy higher quality is an ongoing resolution. It was also reasonably easy to put my foot down to new clothes purchases when we couldn't even leave the house, and house decor/furniture when I know I will be moving into a new home next year.What I did Buy: Skincare, loungewear, activewear, books, video games.
I would say I bought a lot less this year than I have ever bought. So I think that counts for something.
Plan Our Wedding - Oops sorta
I would like to be the first to blame my ADHD for the progress here. Tasks like this can seem so big that we ADHD'ers just get overwhelmed and kind of shut down and avoid them. This is something I'm hoping that medication can really help with, in fact I made some more planning progress today, so I'm confident.We have booked all of our vendors. We did that pretty fast because I was not willing to face any disappointment in that regard. I have my dress! That's right, but Josh doesn't have his suit, he has an idea of where he wants to go for that suit.
Next steps: Save the Dates - we are actually super behind in this important step. So if you haven't received one yet, that's why. Also the wedding is going to be small, so a lot of people are not invited.
Become My Most Authentic Self - An Ongoing Challenge
I specifically referred to myself as being "overly agreeable" in my original resolution. Honestly I still am but I think that is who I am? I'm not hiding an argumentative person deep down inside, I will speak up for myself if it's a situation that actually matters.I've made time to keep in touch with the people that are important to me. I think lockdown really showed how crucial this is. When you only have limited chances to see people, you want to use the time that you have on the people that you actually care about! I only have enough energy for people I like.
In what I thought was a introverted trait, feeling drained around people. Turned out to be only true sometimes, because if I'm around the right people I leave feeling energised.
A discovery that's definitely being true to my authentic self.
There seems to be a bit of a negative connotation surrounding the term "New Years Resolution" now, where people explain how they're just vague and sometimes giant goals we set for the year but have no intention of sticking to. That we shouldn't see the new year as a fresh start, and looking back at our goals at the year's end will only lead to disappointment.
That's quite a miserable way to look at goal setting and not one that I would like to partake in. I myself think that I set quite reasonable resolutions, with attainable goals. I like to check back in during the year to see how I'm going, and again at the end to see if any have become quite laughable.
By some absurd coincidence, I didn't write a Resolution Blog Post for 2020 - and well that happened.
But here we are back again. On my mostly abandoned blog, ready to set some goals for 2021.
Not that I pay too much attention to anyone else, but I feel as though (more than others) I go through phases. Wildly exaggerated phases. I become obsessed with something, it might be for a week or maybe a month. I'll be utterly obsessed with it and then I'll exhaust myself and won't really entertain that particular thing for a long while.
I genuinely hate that I do this. Honestly, it's exhausting. I assume it stems from some inane attempt to "have it all".
For example, was it 2019? I wanted to read 20 books. I actually am a very fast reader, and I love to read. I do not like putting aside time to read, or giving up my other hobbies to read. Nevertheless, I read 16 books in a month and a half, bought myself a kindle and then never read again. Well, that's a slight exaggeration, I've read a few books since then but you see my point. I swapped nearly every single hobby and pastime I had with reading, and then wondered why I couldn't keep it up.
I'm getting off-topic - here are my goals for 2021.
Read 20 Books
Continue Attending Lissome (Crossfit)
Don't Take (Too Much) Unpaid Work
Tidy My Entire Home KonMari Style
Shop Even More Mindfully
Get Our Savings Under Control with the Barefoot Investor
Go to the Gym at Least 3 Times a Week ✓
Read More (12 Books) ✓
Start a Skincare Regimen + Stick to it ✓
Shop Smarter (Especially with Clothes) ✓
Spend Less Time on My Phone ✓
Start Planning & Book A Holiday 𐄂
Special Mention - Some Goals from 2017
Read the Interview Here!
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It’s New Years Eve, I’m writing this as I sit in our cute beach Airbnb in Stanwell Park. Thinking that this is such a great way to begin 2018. Friends and drinks and good times all around.
If you haven’t read my attempts at 2017’s resolutions, you should check them out. Because I pretty much failed them all and with poor excuses why I did. I think excuses are stupid, because either way you still didn't do the thing. But at the same time, sometimes there's a valid excuse.
I've been thinking about what I would like to do this year. I'm still thinking. I don't think there's anything that groundbreaking or exciting. But here it is. My 25th year alive.
Let's do it!
I've been thinking about what I would like to do this year. I'm still thinking. I don't think there's anything that groundbreaking or exciting. But here it is. My 25th year alive.
Let's do it!
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